ACCIDENTAL RACIST
If your question had been, "Are you a racist?", that would simply have been too easy. No. I grew up in "really white" America. My parents used the "N" word, without impunity, because it was the common term used in their homes growing up. I went to completely white schools and had no black friends in my formative years. So, the deck was stacked against me, but I overcame. I remember the 2 weeks my mom worked at our church in place of the vacationing secretary. I went with her to work every day. But, I spent all my days hanging out with the janitor. She was black. Her name was Ollie Tatum. She and I had lunch together every day. We became the best of friends. When the 2 weeks were over, I asked my mom if I could kiss her good-bye. She said "No". I obeyed, but thought that was so wrong. She had a problem. I didn't. In my college days I made friends with people of color that I still cons...