IWANM...Abuse

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Q:  Can God fix a marriage where one spouse is physically abusive?  What does the Bible say?

 A:  First of all let me begin by saying this is definitely more than one question.  Let me address them separately.

Can God fix a marriage where one spouse is physically abusive?  Absolutely.  God can do anything.  Easy.  No-brainer.

What does the Bible have to say?  It has a lot to say.  Which subject were you concerned with particularly?  If you just need to know what the Bible says about God's ability to heal a marriage...or anything else for that matter...it says He's able.

If you're wanting to know if God expects you to stay in an abusive marriage, the answer is absolutely NOT!  God never DEMANDS or EXPECTS or even DESIRES that anyone would divorce.  But, He also makes allowances for it in certain circumstances.  I believe those circumstances include (but, are not limited to):
Adultery
Abandonment
Addiction
Abuse

My word to you would be that if you are in an abusive relationship, GET AWAY FROM IT!  I did not say GET OUT OF IT.  I said GET AWAY FROM IT.  God can still heal it.  God is able to change hearts and minds.  But, you need to have enough self-respect to refuse to put up with abuse.  LEAVE. NOW.

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